16 8 / 2014
"Since I tweeted my distaste for the “miracle” meme, several able-bodied people have helpfully explained to me why it is, in fact, funny. One explained that it’s a joke and that jokes work because they show us something counter to our expectations. But watching someone stand up from a wheelchair is only counter to our expectations if our expectations are based on an ignorant and ultimately bigoted understanding of what disability is and what wheelchairs do."
15 8 / 2014
"What is it about our culture that has led people – especially women, it seems – to view receiving compliments as an awkward experience? I notice time and again that when I extend a compliment to someone, the person deflects, or even outright rejects it, rather than accepting it."